We create our own reality, when we start seeing this clearly. We become empowered and understand that we are 100% in control of our own life. We come out of the victim mode and become the kings/queens of our world. We also start to see that every one else is the owner of their own reality. We understand that everyone else is doing the very best they can. With this knowing we can offer our loving tolerance and compassion to everyone else including ourself on this wonderful journey of life.